“….Give yourself a little more credit. I think you’d be just fine without me. I know I’m not all that much and don’t pretend to be otherwise. But if I’ve helped in any kind of way – that’s good to hear.”
Sometimes, I wonder what I’d do without you.
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You’re an amazing friend to me and I feel like a complete burden to you more often than not
“I’m pretty sure you’re not a burden to me. I clearly enjoy being your friend for some reason. So, I wouldn’t worry so much about it. I’m just trying my best to be good to those I actually spend time around.”
🔵 – What activity to do with them to get them relaxed and in the mood?
Usually listening to specific albums is a good way to get them relaxed. From there it’s pretty easy to start messing around while some good music is playing.
Otherwise, if they are lounging about, having woken up from a nap or something – they might start tracing the parts of the body idly. And that could very well lead to something as well.
Dancing can do this or be having a drink too. But that is more heavily dependent on the company.
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Someone who they have thought of in some sort of sexual context
Uh. It could be a number of folks but most of the time it is very fleeting. And most of the random passing thoughts don’t get much further than a kiss if Saam doesn’t know them well.
I’ll just say @blcemetjes – even though her muse hasn’t been on a minute. Saam definitely has had thoughts about him.
Saam, have you ever confessed your true feelings and then blamed it on a substance or being extra tired?
….Yeah. Honestly, I’ve done that a number of times. Because frankly, I felt forced to say something and any opportunity to take it back in a way that I got, I’d made the most of.
I more often played it off as a joke. As I tend to kind of playfully suggest things and back off very quickly as if it is nothing.
Saam, pick three people you know but don’t know well and please tell us, FMK?
[internal screaming]
Yeah, okay. Um sure, this is actually pretty difficult because if I don’t know someone at least somewhat well, I’m not likely to want to do anything remotely intimate with them outside maybe kissing at the most.
Fuck – I guess Cyril maybe? He’s cute.
Marry – …uh, Aaron perhaps. I uh. I’m not going to try and explain that. But Mameko is also potentially a good choice
Kill – whoever else. [shrug] but really I can’t say, sorry. Not good at casually just throwing someone to die.
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♡ What they do after sex
Generally, go and clean up themselves a bit, use the restroom. but afterwards, they’re pretty down to cuddle if their partner requests it. Otherwise, they tend to try and get some sleep even if it takes them a while to get anything resembling tired.
♦ Stamina
They have a decent amount like they can go for a while if they’re really feeling that mood in the moment. And so they like to get worn out through intense activity just to test how much that stamina can actually take.
❀ One thing they’re dying to try.
Probably sensation play. I think they really like the idea of using ice on other people. Or ice being used on them.
Also. blindfolding someone and being able to tease them and watch them squirm. They’re definitely into doing that as well.
☄ If there was a safe-word, what would it be?
Probably a color. Like Purple or Silver. Just something relatively easy to remember and can be signaled as an obvious desire to get out of the situation that they are in.
☠ Sexuality
It’s kind of inconsistent for Saam. since they’ve been pretty okay with going without for long periods of time. I guess they’re technically bi or pan as they can be attracted to people of whatever gender. I’d probably put them on the ace spectrum in the grey area because they don’t often feel the need or drive to seek out people.
But I think simply going with bi would be what they’d tell people.
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