1. a trait they have too much of  (ex. too much pride = arrogance)

Probably paranoia. They’ve been hyper-aware of their circumstances and the way certain beings tend to interact with each other, that they do have a solid wariness of the future. It leaves them incredibly distrustful in subtle ways, always doubting the intentions of others. it is this paranoia that has probably contributed to them being able to keep people at a relatively comfortable distance because why bother letting them get too close if they will inevitably betray you. 

1. a trait they don’t have enough of (ex. too little pride = insecurity)

Too little self-love. They are very self-critical to a point that it is a little worrying to witness. Saima usually downplays this trait but they do have a hard time believing that people think of them in good ways. Or that they are cared about in any way. It often leads them to not act on their feelings and be demotivated from even bothering.

Assuming the worst denies others the opportunity to choose and yet they have this kind of thought process anyway.