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✨ self-compassion.

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DOES YOUR MUSE HAVE SELF-LOVE?

✨ Saima shows themselves some compassion.

Whenever possible, you try to be easy on yourself. You aren’t always compassionate, but you try.You believe it’s important to cut yourself a break, because no one else might. And you’re doing the best you can.

You live a hectic life, and sometimes it’s hard to find the time or energy for self-care. You are still looking for the right balance.And when you’re having a hard day, it may be difficult to not beat up on yourself a bit when you’re feeling worn down.

No worries if you’re not as self-compassionate as you’d like to be. You’re getting there, and that’s the important thing.Remember to be easy on yourself in every way. Even when you make mistakes, it doesn’t mean that you’re broken.

✨ TAGGED BY:  @softestmood
✨ TAGGING: steal it. 

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✨ three intelligences.        

TOP THREE INTELLIGENCES FOR YOUR MUSE.

✨ Musical. 4.86/5.

Musical: You like the rhythm and sound of language. You like poems, songs, and jingles. You enjoy humming or singing along with music. You probably remember things well when they are associated with music or rhythm. 

✨ Self. 4.14/5.

Self: You have a very good sense of self. You like to spend time by yourself and think things over. You will often take in information from another person, mull it over by yourself, and come back to that person later to discuss it. You like working on projects on your own. You often prefer to learn by trial and error.

✨ Language. 4/5.


Language:You enjoy enjoy saying, hearing, and seeing words. You like telling stories. You are motivated by books, records, dramas, opportunities for writing. Effective techniques of enhancing your learning using your language intelligence include reading aloud, especially plays and poetry. Another idea is to write down reflections on what you’ve read. You may also enjoy exploring and developing your love of words, i.e., meanings of words, origin of words and idioms, names

✨ TAGGED BY: @softestmood @dxspereaux
✨ TAGGING:  steal it and say I tagged you.

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(SEXUAL TRAITS)

Tagged By: @sverige-san
Tagging: eh.whoever wants to

  • INCLINATIONS/HABITS:

is submissive | is dominant | prefers to top | prefers to bottom | likes to switch| identifies as heterosexual | identifies as homosexual | identifies as bisexual | identifies as pansexual | identifies as demisexual | identifies as asexual | enjoys sex with men | enjoys sex with women | enjoys sex with multiple people at one time? | initiates | waits for partner to initiate | spits | swallows | prefers sex in the morning | prefers sex at night | prefers sex any time | no sex drive | low sex drive | average sex drive | high sex drive | hypersexual.

  • BODY/APPEARANCE:

small build | medium build | athletic build | muscular build | curvy build | voluptuous build | stocky build | chubby | fat | boxers | briefs | boxer-briefs | wears lingerie | goes ‘commando’ | shaves/waxes | doesn’t shave/wax | cup size a-c | cup size d-f | 1-5" in length | 6-9“ in length | 10” or over in length.

  • SOUNDS:

is silent / makes little to no sounds | is very quiet | is very loud | grows in volume over time | bites hand / partner / pillow to muffle themselves | calls out partner’s name | curses | fakes/exaggerates | prefers a quiet partner | prefers a loud partner | is turned on by dirty talk | is turned off by dirty talk.

  • TURN-ONS/KINKS:

having their hands pinned | pinning their partner’s hands | having their hair pulled | pulling their partner’s hair | being watched (by their partner) | being watched (by a third party) | watching their partner | receiving oral | giving oral | calling their partner ‘daddy’ | being called ‘daddy’ | giving praise | receiving praise | biting / marking | being bitten / marked | spanking | being spanked | teasing | being teased | having toys used on them | using toys on their partner | giving anal | receiving anal | choking | being choked | slapping | being slapped | dirty talk | being tied up | tying their partner up | being worshiped | worshiping their partner | humiliating | being humiliated | degrading | being degraded | knife play | blood play | being pegged | pegging their partner | whipping | being whipped | none of the above.

  • PLACES:

in a bedroom | in a shower / bath | in a pool/ocean | in a kitchen | in a bathroom (home) | in a bathroom (public) | in a car | in a tent | in an alleyway | in a field / forest | at a school | in an empty / abandoned building | in a library | on a rooftop / terrace | in a dressing room | in an elevator | in a parking lot | at a museum | at a cemetery | at a beach | in a closet | at a hospital.

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body / appearance tag.
tagged by:  @sverige-san
tagging: Do what you want.

body.

Long legs. Short legs. Average legs. Slender thighs. Thick thighs. Muscular thighs. Skinny arms. Soft arms. Muscular arms. Toned stomach. Flat stomach. Flabby Stomach. Soft stomach. Six-pack. Beer belly. Lean frame. Slender frame. Beefy/muscular frame. Voluptuous frame. Petite frame (5 ft 4 or shorter). Lanky frame. Short nails. Long nails. Manicured nails. Dirty nails. Flat ass. Toned ass. Bubble butt. Thick ass. Small waist. Thick waist. Narrow hips. Average hips. Wide hips. Big feet. Average feet. Small feet. Soft feet. Slender feet. Calloused feet. Calloused hands. Soft hands. Big hands. Average hands. Small hands. Long fingers. Short fingers. Average fingers. Broad shoulder. Underweight. Average weight. Overweight.

height.

Shorter than 140 cm. 141 cm-150 cm. 151 cm to 160 cm. 161 cm to 170 cm. 171 cm to 180cm. 181 cm to 190 cm. 191 cm to 2m. Taller than 2 m.

skin.

Pale. Fair. Rosy. Olive. Dark. Tanned. Blotchy. Smooth. Acne. Dry. Greasy. Freckled. Scarred.

eyes.

Small. Large. Average. Grey. Brown. Black. Blue. Red. Green. Gold. Hazel. Doe-eyed. Almond. Close-set. Wide-set. Squinty. Monolid. Heavy eyelids. Upturned. Downturned.

hair.

Thin. Thick. Fine. Normal. Greasy. Dry. Soft. Shiny. Curly. Frizzy. Wild. Unruly.Straight. Smooth. Wavy. Floppy. Cropped. Pixie-cut. Short. Shoulder length. Back length. Waist length. Floor length. Buzz cut. Bald. Jaw length. Mohawk. White. Platinum blonde. Golden blonde. Dirty blonde. Ombre. Light brown. Mouse brown. Chestnut brown. Golden brown. Chocolate brown. Dark brown. Jet black. Ginger. Auburn. Dyed red. Dyed any “unnatural color”. Streaked. Thin eyebrows. Average eyebrows. Thick eyebrows.

tattoos / piercings.

Full sleeve. Thigh tattoo. Shin tattoo. Wrist tattoo. Hand/finger tattoo. Foot tattoo. Neck tattoo. Face tattoo. Chest tattoo. One tattoo. A few here and there.Multiple. No tattoo. Monroe piercing. Nose piercing. Septum. Nipple piercing(s). Genital piercing(s). Industrial piercings. Earlobe piercing. Prince Albert piercing. Eyebrow piercing(s). Tongue piercing(s). Lip piercing(s). Tragus piercing. Angel bites. Labret. Stretches out ears. Navel piercing. Inverse navel piercing. Cheek piercing(s). Smiley. Nape piercing(s). No piercings.

cosmetics.

Light eyeliner. Heavy eyeliner. Cat eyes. Mascara. Fake eyelashes. Matte lipstick. Regular lipstick. Lip Gloss. Red lips. Pink lips. Dark lips. Bronzer. Highlighter. Eyeshadow. Neutral eyeshadow. Smoky eyes. Colorful eyeshadow. Blush. Lip Liner. Light contouring. Heavy contouring. Powder. Matte foundation. Shiny foundation. Concealer. Wears makeup regularly. Wears it from time to time. Never wears makeup.

scent.

Floral. Fruity. Perfumes. Aftershave. Cocoa. Moisturizer. Natural soap. Shampoo. Cigarettes. Leather. Sweat. Food. Incense. Marijuana. Cologne. Whiskey. Wine. Fried food. Blood. Fire. Metal. Rain. Grass. Ocean. Autumn leaves. Baked bread. Freshly baked cookies. Smoke. Campfire. Lavender. Trees. Pumpkin Pie. Musk. Rose. Gingerbread. Peppermint. Oak. Honey. Lemon. Vanilla. Coffee. Cake. Mint. Raw hyde. Sawdust.

clothes.

Jeans. Dress pants. Tight pants. Overknee socks. Tights. Leggings. Yoga pants. Pencil skirt. Tight skirt. Loose skirt. Tight/formfitting dress. Cardigans.Blouse. Button-up shirt. Band t-shirt. Sports t-shirt. Sweatpants. Tanktop. Cut-off t-shirt. Designer. High street. Online stores. Thrift. Lingerie. Long skirt. Miniskirt. Maxi Dress. Sundress. Tie. Tuxedo. Cocktail dress. High Slit dress/skirt. T-shirt. Loose clothing.Tight clothing. Jean shorts. Sweater. Sweater vest. Khaki pants. Suit. Hoodie. Harem pants. Basketball shorts. Boxers. Briefs. Thong. Hotpants. Hipster panties. Bra. Sports bra. Crop top. Corset. Ballerina skirt. Leotard. Polka dot. Stripes. Glitter. Silk. Lace. Leather. Velvet. Chemise. Patterns. Florals. Neon colors. Pastels. Plaid. Black. Dark colors. Fur. Faux fur.

shoes.

Sneakers. Slip-ons. Flats. Slippers. Sandals. High heels. Kitten heels. Ankle boots. Combat boots. Boots. Cowboy boots. Knee-high. Platforms. Stripper heels. Bare feet. Loafers.

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What do people love about your muse?

✨ People love Saima because they’re a… Brain.

You radiate a quiet intellect, and it’s your great mind that draws people to you. You’re extremely well-read, and your vast knowledge makes you an excellent conversationalist. You have a smaller group of friends (you go for quality over quantity), but they’re all just as smart and intellectually stimulating as you are. Get all of you in a room, and you could solve most of the world’s problems before lunch! Sometimes your intellectual pursuits take you away from having a robust social life, but your intellectual contributions more than make up for a lighter social calendar.

✨ TAGGED BY: @softestmood
✨ TAGGING: you. consider yourself tagged

soulmate type

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What kind of person is your muse’s soulmate?

✨ Your Soulmate is Protective.

You can be a shy and quiet person, and sometimes doing things out in the world stresses you out. You need someone who will speak up for you and take care of you when times are tough.

You don’t mind being with a partner who likes to be in control, as long as your sweetie isn’t controlling. Above all, your soulmate is confident and competent. You could never be attracted to someone who was immature!

✨ TAGGED BY: @softestmood
✨ TAGGING. you. tag me if you did it.

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✨19.4% Relaxed, 19.4% Avoidant

Relaxed-Avoidant (Dismissive): Individuals in this quadrant often take a dim view of others, preferring to keep their distance and guard against invasions of their autonomy and privacy. Relaxed-Avoidant personalities tend to have a strong belief that others are too different from them for truly intimate relations to be worthwhile. They may have a spouse and family, and even be solidly anchored in a stable network of friends and acquaintances, but at the end of the day, they tend to avoid entering into relations where emotional interdependence and intimacy are required. Unlike individuals who fall in the On Edge-Avoidant quadrant, Dismissive personalities tend to be quite content keeping their deepest feelings and views to themselves, and they often have a deeply-held belief that the opinions of others are mildly irrelevant or even second-rate. Consequently, many Dismissive types are often quite good at dissimulating, that is, appearing to share their innermost thoughts, while in reality, they are simply appeasing others without ever letting them come close.

Independent and proud of it, these individuals can typically achieve remarkable feats of social manipulation and self-restraint, but on the downside, they may have trouble kicking bad habits (such as drinking or smoking) which they can enjoy in solitude and use to comfort themselves, independently of the company of others. They can frequently be unmotivated or lazy with regard to the duties that others expect of them, but on the other hand, they are often very original (since they are not hindered by concerns about having to conform to the expectations of the group). Finally, they also tend to be intelligent risk-takers, since they are at heart relaxed and cool under fire.

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✨ TAGGING… theft.

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🥀Do you create bonds with mortals or avoid getting attached?

  “Well, it has depended on the time period for me. But I have made bonds with mortals before and probably will again. But I think I always did approach being friendly with mortals with a knowing reserve. Something behind knowing that you’ll be around far, far longer than any single one of them does cause a little bittersweetness. But I can’t let that stop me from being a patron, from building connections since it is part of my existence to be a bridge between experiences.”

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What is your opinion on how music, art, and culture has changed?

   “Personally, I live for the changes over the years. I know people get nostalgic for certain time periods and certain kinds of culture. But honestly, I am really excited to see how the way people explore common themes in different ways. It’s fascinating to see what kind of trends come around in creation and how they are transformed and transfigured. I may have my personal favorites, but I’m always looking forward to seeing what else might come along and grab the people’s attention.”