Well, I’m not a romantic by nature. But I’ve developed a good way of treating people well romantically whenever I can. So I guess I’m fairly decent at it. What you need it for?
How good are you with romance?
Tag: asks
☁ Have you ever forgiven a partner when you shouldn’t have?
Possibly?
I mean, there was someone who one person had told me bad things about and I wasn’t really sure if it was true so I remained somewhat cordial. But I can’t confirm if it was a bad idea to keep interacting with them because the person who had tried to tell me – accused me of something pretty sharp before deleting her blog.
So… I don’t know if it was a mistake to forgive the person who I had heard things but never really felt uncomfortable around or not.
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Thoughts on the fandom you’re currently rping in?
[dark laughter]
Ugh. this place.
Honestly, I think my attachment to my character is the main thing keeping me here. Because I’ve seen the same things over and over to the point that I am damn tired. and I just.. I have a lot to say but I don’t say it because at this point, I really can not be bothered. And honestly, I am only comfortable saying certain things to certain people because… I’m really, really cautious around most people here really. And i’m a pretty quiet person by nature.
So I’m just here to hang out, write my character and chat with people I feel comfortable with.
That’s it.
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- ✿ What do you think about public call out posts?
I don’t hate them. They are definitely not my style because I’m an intensely private person and would much rather handle things personally.
However, as a last resort, I don’t really hate them as a way of spreading information about someone if the situation calls for it. Obviously, I’d prefer if people talk to each other privately before taking it public. And of course, it is necessary to have ..receipts so to speak when making such public things.
But people have to deal with situations in a way that they see is most fitting.
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How has Tumblr RP changed since you started?
Oh goodness
Back in my day /bricked/
But really…it has changed a lot since when I started on here. Singleship is a lot rarer- I still obviously see it – but I think people are less in a single community. So the single continuity doesn’t show up as often. Just because there are different versions and opportunities to develop different relations – that there are all kinds of circles and things that show up.
I think people are a lot more open ooc I guess. I mean not that it didn’t happen before but i definitely see more people engaged on issues they feel important to them ooc than what I remember.
The ways people communicate ooc has changed.
Less group events – I remember group events totally being a thing and it doesn’t happen as often at least not in this part of Tumblr RP.
I guess the kinds of characters that show up a lot has shifted from time to time. It seems like waves of a single character will show up and then go after a while.
A lot of things have changed.. It’s definitely different from when I started.
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What’s your rp pet peeve?
I guess I get kind of skeeved out when rp sometimes gets i… I don’t even want to say darker things because I’ve seen people write interesting takes about really troublesome situations but – I feel like there’s an instinctive line and I can’t obviously suggest it for others because I am not them.
But there’s a level where it goes beyond what I’m comfortable with and cease to understand the appeal of writing certain things. But obviously, I don’t really follow those people at all – but I’ve heard of what some people are comfortable writing and can totally tell I’d not be down with seeing that on my feed. Mostly because of my personal background and how that influences what I can deal with.
☢ What fads/trends are you so over? ❧ Have you ever been jealous of anyone?
Fads that I’m over?
I mean, I am not even sure – because I don’t really pay attention to that many trends anymore. And those that remain have happened over and over for so long that I just.. keep to those I feel comfortable talking about it and leave it be.
I almost don’t really want to answer because like it’s not even a trend I’m actually over – but there is something that I do get tired of seeing on my feed. But it’s not a trend since it only involves a pairing or whatever. But that’s a thought for another time because honestly, I’m still wrapping my head around why I’m just kind of meh about it.
Jealous? Oh yeah, definitely. A few years ago there were a few Estonia’s around and there was this hilarious one eestiisnotapetname – I think the url was. And they were so funny and I guess I envied having such an obviously amusing muse when mine in comparison ended up being so withdrawn. It just was easy for me to feel like I wasn’t writing the muse well with such a more..blatantly out there muse was around.
♥ What’s the WORST thing that has happened to you rp wise? ♢ Has anyone ever tried to steal your blog? Your headcanons? Icons? All that jazz
Worst thing that has happened to me rp-wise? Uh. I don’t know – I guess the feeling of building up relations with people and then having them disappear and never come back – that happening multiple times have been the worst thing.
Occasionally the random anon about my muse not being the Estonia that they wanted which, I’ve accepted at this point because [yeah personal interpretation ye]
Otherwise, I don’t actively remember all that much bad things happening rp-wise that I didn’t purposely do – like put Saima through some serious crises in terms of keeping themselves together.
Uh steal my blog? Not really – I mean back in the day when this was more of an APH blog I guess another blog used the title Resident of the Internet for their own rp blog of what was at the time – the same character.
It wasn’t really a big deal though and it’s especially nothing now that I’ve kind of taken my characterization in a further direction. But that’s about as close as it gets for a stealing thing.
♛ bc I didn’t know u already got the other one cries
beach / swimsuit
Beaches have been something that have been a little bit nerve-wracking for Saam. But lately, they’ve been going with simple two-pieces – not all that dissimilar to tankini tops with short bottoms that cover up enough for them to be comfortable out in public. Or they have work swim shorts to the beach with a cute top as well. So it just depends on what they’re into trying out.
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pajamas / bedtime outfit
Lately, Saima’s been wearing mostly long t-shirts and casual shorts underneath or a camisole and some shorts to bed. Occasionally, they’ve been wearing something that more resembles a gown to bed but it just depends on what the weather is like. Either way, the goal is to keep things relatively loose.
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